Okay so I'm 18 , don't bash on me just yet for being in this group at 18. Me and my boyfriend are not actively ttc, I just like reading and getting to know different things, I have irregular cycles so I like to get more information on things. However me and my boyfriend do want to try for a family after I'm done with college. So to the point of being laughed at, my friend is 17, she's I believe 10w pregnant. Most of the things she's wanted to know she has come to me, why? Because I read, I read A TON about babies, I read about pregnancy, after birth , 1st year , all of that. I learned first aid from reading, cpr techniques , all of this from READING. I was told that it'll be difficult for me to get pregnant and I had a miscarriage is 2015 so I just read a ton , and my "friend" was making jokes about how that's stupid and unnecessary to read that it's okay to just jump into it. She makes it seem like it's "stupid" that me and boyfriend are saving money up for rainbow baby and that I teach my boyfriend different things about the female body and a baby. I don't think it's dumb or stupid or a reason to get laughed at for. Before my miscarriage I was gonna go into that without knowing much so I made myself learn more before ANYTHING . Idk 😒she made me feel really dumb for wanting to be prepared.