secret marriage

Candace
Anyone else elop and chose not to tell any one until you have a fancy wedding? Currently only my conworkers know and my best friend as work is the only place I can wear my ring. Just looking for advise as my family does not approve of my husband at the time. We have been together 7 years and they always go back and forth on approval. We misscarried a few months back and had a court house wedding on what was supposed to me our due date.