I had no idea until coming on here that there is a massive stigma around how long men should last and that it's funny or embarrassing if they don't last longer. 

I'll start you off with a peep into my sex life. My SO and I have an amazing sex life, I orgasm every time we have sex (wohoo for bullets). Sometimes my SO will last 20-30 minutes sometimes it is 5 minutes, if I said that on here I would probably receive a kid of sad emojis. Why is it sad/embarrassing/funny if he doesn't last long? Personally I see it that he's so sexually attracted to me he can't help but cum right away. Do I want him to control that? HELL TO THE NO. If he wants to cum in 2 strokes you cum! 

I never realised there was such judging around this subject, I don't have bad sex at all. Why do we judge other people's sex life by how long it lasts? I know it isn't a personal attack but I am just genuinely curious. 

What is the supposed correct time length for having sex? Does 1 hour mean it's good sex? Is 2 hours amazing sex? Why do people rate it on how long their partner lasts for? 

I am genuinely curious and I believe I may get the answers of 'not your sex life not your problem' which to be honest I would write back too! But I just don't understand the judgemental stigma I see on here surrounding how long your partner lasts in bed. 

I've seen many posts, polls everything with laughing faces or sad faces next to 1-5 minutes.