Okay so I have planned a trip to go to Kentucky from California, I lived there for two years and have a ton of friends and family there. I planned the trip to go see my best friend get pinned for nursing, well she bombed her final. I was going to go regardless since I've already bought my ticket and was looking forward to see everyone. I'm reluctant because it's close to my 4month olds dad who I cannot have any encounters with.. while it's not LIKELY(we will be 1-2hours away from him, at least, the entire time) it's possible even though he has no clue I'm going, which still has me a bit anxious. It's costing like $1500 to go, I have it and it's gonna be fine but that's a lot of money.. do I REALLY need to go. While it would be refreshing and nice to go, if it's not necessary.. is it too much of a splurge? It would be amazing to get out and BREATHE and remember who I am and see all the refreshing souls of my friends and family out that way. But I'm a single mom with a new baby, it would be our first big trip. I love traveling I'm just questioning if it's a wise trip to take right now, since my friend isn't graduating. And I COULD book a mini trip to the beach a few hours away and just relax for a few days. Any input is appreciated. 😊