Well. This evening I was given my boyfriend's phone to use Apple Pay to buy groceries, but while trying to get the card up his messages opened and I thought I saw the name of his ex. He had to finish work, so left me with his phone and curiosity got the better of me so I unlocked it and looked again. Turns out he's been texting her since February and while nothing looks super alarming, they made plans to hang out all the time.