Not Compromising

So I kind of  just wanted to share this. So I tried online dating on tinder. And I was talking to this guy a for about a week. We had really good conversations. And he made me laugh and I found someone I could be sassy with and someone if everything went well could be my first boyfriend (I'm 19 by the way and never been in a relationship). But sadly the conversation took a turn when he asked me what I thought about sex. I told him I don't believe in sex before marriage not just because of my religious views but also my education comes first. To make a long story short when I asked if he wanted to meet up. He seemed down to meet up at Starbucks but then he sent me a text and said why are we meeting there's no point, because I'm not going to wait until marriage to have sex. He said he wanted to get to know me on a relational level, but knows that was deal breaker for him. At first I was upset with myself because I thought like I was only good enough to have sex with but not good enough to be in a relationship with. I felt like I was always going to be alone and that I was ugly. After a couple hours of moping around, I decided to be proud that I wasn't going to compromise on something that I value. Though I thought me and this guy would be amazing together, I value myself more.  I just wanted to share that whatever it is that you value don't compromise on it. Instead find someone with the same values!