I had my little peanut 4 weeks ago now by emergency c-section. I have a few questions for all you second time mommas. Especially those who have had a c-section.

1. How long after your c-section did your incision stop hurting? I know they said it will feel tight in the coming weeks, but oh my lanta it feels like they sewed something up wrong. A constant pull/ache on the left side near my hip.

2. Do you wake your baby up to eat? Or do you let them wake up and tell you they're hungry. This little chick is ALL over the place as far as eating. She'll go almost 5 hours one time. 2 the next. Will eat 2oz then 4oz. I know every baby is different but I feel like she needs to be woken up to get on a schedule. Hubs disagrees.

3. Formula fed babies. How long does yours go without a bowel movement? She seems to be getting backed up and went 3 days without anything.

I'm just looking for other opinions and answers.

(Pic of baby to give you something cute to look at 🤗)