struggles of genders

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so my friend is writing an essay on struggles for both males and females and how they're "supposed" to act. 
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as i was thinking about it, i actually became really curious. so,
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what are some things you think males want to do but don't because they're afraid of being seen as feminine? and as females, what are some things you've wanted to do but haven't because you're afraid of being seen as masculine?
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feel free to post as many examples as you can think of!