Schedule a repeat csection?

Kate
I am due with my 2nd May 19th.  I had an emergency csection with a VERY easy recovery 4 years ago in June.  I am a good candidate for a VBAC because I was 10cm, 100% effaced and pushing, it was fetal distress and stalling contractions that led to the csection.  I can't decide what to do.  I was 4 days early with my first.  Not sure if/when I should schedule for.   This baby is on the big side and I am having many (but typical) pregnancy symptoms and I never had any with my first!  And I am having anxiety about something going wrong, I also feel very out of shape and am worried that labor and a VBAC will just be too much stress on my body where a scheduled csection would be done with a rested body.  I will not have an induction due to it causing more complications if you already have scar tissue.  We are not sure yet if this will be our last baby or if we will have 1 more.  

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