freaking out

So I was with my fiancé for three n half years everything was great we have two kids one on the way and I recently found out he's a registered sex offender and he has a porn addiction and has anger issues all of a sudden like those three years was amazing he was so sweet and loving and now I looked him up and he's registered for sleeping with 14-16 year olds he's been on the registery since he was 18 he's 27 now and I've left him and live with my mom at the moment and now he's threatening to take the kids I'm so scared and stresses out but he can't right cause he's on the registery right 
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Co

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The only thing I'm going to add is if he was 18 and slept with someone younger than him (it happens all the time for high school kids) and then the parents pressed charges automatically making him a sex offender and on the list. I'm not saying you shouldn't leave but maybe ask him and see if he will be honest with you about the situation. You should also be able to look up his arrest records. I do think it's a red flag that he has never told you about it. Also because he is on the list he can never take the kids from you so you are safe there. I would stay with your mom and try and figure things out. I'm sorry you're going through this!!

Je

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Wow.. that's a lot to take it. How did you find out? Honestly it's probably in your best interest to stay away from him, however you also need to get an order of protection for you AND your two kids already.Wishing you the best of luck and safety.

Je

Jessica • Apr 19, 2017
wow I'm sorry love. :(

Ga

Gabriella • Apr 19, 2017
He told me he said oh you probably should know and then I found a lot of porn on his phone n the girl he was talking to told me she was 16 he's 27

Ta

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He has no chance of taking your children from you darling. Get a restraining order against him as you fear the safety of you and your children. It is so damn hard for a man to get his children even if the mother is not so good with the children... not a single chance someone on a sex offenders list will be able to take children away from a mother that is still fit to be a parent. Even if you were a major drug addict or not treating your children well, they would still chose a family member or foster care before putting the children with him.

Ga

Gabriella • Apr 19, 2017
Ok thank you that makes me feel better he's really crazy he called his mom n told her to punch me in the face we all got into a huge fight the guy has problems

Li

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I'm pretty sure if he's listed as sex offender he can't do shit to take your kids away ! That's really serious and I would save any txt and call to take it to court . Maybe get a restraining order ?  Be safe 😬