My boyfriend and me when to a sex shop recently to see what we could find... Along with a ton of other things we walked out of there with a couple sex straps. One of them is like a spider ball gag that straps around your head. The other is an underbelly strap for when you're in doggy style, so your man can pull you in an take control! Whew! That was amazing!!!!!;) if you ladies have never tried either of these, i HIGHLY recommend them:)