doing stuff with a virgin🤔

So my boyfriend is a virgin.. we have done things but it's always me doing stuff to him. he's not fingered me or ate me out yet. for one i'm scared he's not gonna be good at it. & im even more scared to have sex with him bc i want his first time to be special. but i also want it to be good, you know? he wants to have sex really bad but i keep putting it off.. help please..😖