I don't know what to do ..

As a Scorpio .. A man goes through a lot  before he truly gains access to our heart . Starting as friends my Libra boyfriend and I hit it off . But once we made it official things became intense & I started to give him a hard time . It confused him and hurt him and now he talks to me any kind of way . As a scorpio we're prideful and this really affects me . He justifies his disrespect by saying " if you didn't do what you did or acted so dumb I wouldn't .. Your the cause " At first I kind of ignored it like he's hurt & angry it will past. But now it's like everything I do I'm kind of put  down with hurtful words & anger and I love this man and plan to marry him . Idk what to do ? I'm going to start by changing my nasty feisty attitude at times and seeing if that helps . But yea what do I do ladies ?