Any thoughts?? 😔

I have been in a realtionship for 3 1/2 years now. High School Sweet hearts ♡ But we've had ups and downs.we have never broke up we have always been a couple. We also have a 13 month old daughter. Before i found out i was pregant.. he was talking about just being friends i cryed and walked away and he catched me and changed his mind...that was when we were together a year and a half..3 weeks later i found out i was 5 weeks pregnant. He was soooo amazing during the whole pregnacy ♡ when she was born. I mostly took care of her when she had to go to the er i was the only one there... he got a new job which he loves. He works 5 days week 13 hours. So i understand hes tired.but sometimes he would say he had to work saturdays which skipped around on weekends. He use to spend some time with me and our daughter. Things got better for a little bit we had a huge plan of a wedding i was so excited and i was planning. Then he tells me he doesnt really want to. And he doesnt want to have another baby anytime soon either... its like i just wasted my time dreaming.. but i got over it. He really doesnt text me anymore and when i call him hes always asleep. When he does txt me he doesnt have much to say... I LOVE THIS GUY I SEE A FURTURE WITH HIM..i get really jealous but i tell him what i dont like and he says ok and assures me hes not going anywhere.. i just dont know what to do i cant force him to stay with me or spend time with us... any thoughts?