I'm asking because my best friend is in a rough place, trying to straighten her life out and just got into a relationship with someone she's never told me about. So me being me I asked her if he has a car, a license, a job, does drugs, is going to college, etc. And her response to me was let me get him to open up to me. I don't know much about his story. I'm sorry what? You're dating someone when you don't know general things about them? Am I just being crazy or what?