So I have noticed that my sweet little girl is very active most of the time. I am at 25w4d. The one time she becomes quiet is when I am at my mother's house. I don't particularly like being at my mother's house and I worry that my anxieties about visiting are affecting my baby. I don't feel anxious or stressed when I'm there but I know it is in my subconscious. I try to avoid going to her house as much as I can. My mother is annoying and isn't helpful when it comes to pregnancy advice. It took my husband and I 2 and a half years to get pregnant. Her helpful words of advice?... "It only took me a month to get pregnant whenever I wanted to."