What if your boyfriend said this to you

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My boyfriend and I been together for 4 years and we live together. I'm 24 and he's 25. Past 2 months i noticed I'm usually pursuing sex and not him. Now I gained about 20lbs in the last 4 months so I already feel like I'm not attractive. Anyways I asked him how come he's not pursuing sex and his response was "I don't like to have sex at night anymore And plus I'm getting older" 
To me this is an excuse. I don't know what to think. I'm pretty hurt because I don't know if he finds me unattractive or if there is someone else..: 
Help me ladies and I would like to hear your input.

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Testosterone is the highest in the morning. Ejaculations do increase prolactin and DHT. There's some truth in what he's saying.

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He's full of BS. I don't know your age or how long you've been together but it's possible he's that much of an ass that he's judging your weight or cheating

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My boyfriend and I are both 27 and have been together 10 years lived together 8. Even with two boys he still finds a way to try to have sex with me. I mean granted every guy is different but a health 25 y/o I can't see not wanting it no matter the time. Honestly if you really want to know if it's your weight, loose it and see if things change. I know easier said than done but you have to do what your man wants or some other chick will. And same goes for man. Don't get me wrong I'm not skinny but either is his ass so hey lol good luck!

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Stop pursuing him.

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Sex does tend to slow down after so long. But, don't push him to say it's about your weight, just lose it if u want to. He might have just found some new intersting porn topic or something that he's rly into right now so there's a lull w you. you coyld try seeing if hed like to try something new in the bedroom. Or he might be stressed out, depressed a bit, anything.  You could try asking him again but don't try pushing/accusing him that it's because of your weight. Lose the weight if you can and see if anything changes. But u force him to admit or just say it's because of your weight, him doing so will hurt.

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It's his testosterone we have the same problem he isn't even able to get hard half the time at night because he is so worn out an tired from
Working but mornings are awesome

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Maybe low testoserone. My hubby has it. I know what you are going through. My hubby is 27 and has had this issue since was 25. I honestly believe it is not you. It's very hard. I wish I could offer some advice.

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Erectile Dysfunction can get guys at any age. That could be his problem and if it is, he's most likely EXTREMELY self conscious about it.

Also, people can lose their libido at any age as well.

It could be a number of things like that. Try talking it over with him more.

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After being with someone for so long it's normal for the frequency of sex to go up and down, my fiancé and I have been together 6yrs and at times we both feel like this, life gets busy and we tend to forget each other a bit, you just need to reconnect sexually,

Time to try and spice things up introduce a new toy or sexy outfits, 
If you feel he isn't being faithful then be mature and honest and sit down and talk about it with him, hope everything works out x

What if your boyfriend said this to you

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