WORST FIRST 'DATE' EVER!
*DISCLAIMER: This might be really long and somewhat descriptive*
So I'd been talking to this guy that I had met at some event for about a week. We'd planned to go out on Saturday (last night). We didn't know exactly what we wanted to eat but we said we'd figure it out. Mind you, I deliberately told this guy that I wasn't going back to his house because I don't trust men and usually guys would try to sleep with me. He responded by saying that we could do whatever I wanted to do just as long as I was comfortable. He also said that he wouldn't even dare try anything sexual like that with me, he just 'wanted to get to know' me. So I took his word. I met up with him in his area thinking he'd pick me up and we were going to go out to eat at a place he knows. Why am I seeing us pull up outside some houses?? I didn't think too much of it so I got out of the car and followed him into his house. I notice him taking off his shoes by the door but I kept mine on and walked in. In my mind now, we were gonna chill for like an hour at most and then go eat. Well was I fucking wrong! 10 minutes in, he'd finally convinced me to take my shoes and coat off.We sat on the couch while I was scrolling through Netflix to find a good show to watch. He gets up and stands in the mirror to brush his hair then tells me to stand in front of him. So I do. He holds me from behind and complimenting how I looked which I didn't mind but here's when I REALLY started feeling a bit off. He leaned over and started kissing on my ear and trying to go down to my neck. I leaned away from him telling him to stop and he acted surprised. Then he turnt me around to check out my butt which made me feel uncomfortable. I then led him back to the couch to divert his focus to the movie he put on.
*DISCLAIMER 2: he lives in one room in a house with housemates so his living room was also his bedroom. Also I will not name names so I will use fake names*
He sat at the couch before me and started telling me to sit in between his legs. I sat beside him instead and told him I didn't want to. He was still trying to convince me because he wanted to 'cuddle'. Because I was constantly declining, he started saying that because I didn't let him touch me, he was going to sleep as if I'd done something wrong?? Fast forward, I pushed him off of me from trying to kiss my neck but he carried on and then proceeded to rub my boob over my top. When I repeatedly told him to stop he tried to say "I'm not doing anything" like is he blind?? He then tried to put his hand in my top to get to my boob and that's when I had enough!! I pushed him will full force and told to stop fucking touching.Then he says "it's not like I'm telling you to take off your clothes" so I responded with "from the time that you're trying to grab my boobs, you should know you're doing WAY too much". He gets up and lays in his bed. By that time, it was just before 11pm. I felt awkward and uncomfortable sitting on the couch while he laid on the bed so I started to conjure up a plan to get THE FUCK out of there! I texted one of my bestfriends Taylor to call me with a fake emergency and in about 2 SECONDS she'd called with some fake story about a supposed friend having a nervous breakdown blah blah blah. (I've got some amazing friends lol). I turn back to the guy saying I'm leaving and I grabbed my stuff and walk to the door. He tried to put the blame on me for the bad atmosphere by saying that I was being "unnecessarily tight, weird and awkward" and even had the AUDACITY to ask me what he did wrong as if he pretty much wasn't trying to have sex with me the first time we'd properly met each other😒😒 I didn't even have the time to put on my shoes nor argue with him so I took my shit and RAN!!! I was literally running on the road without my socks on 😂 I called up my other bestfriend Ally and told her what happened and thanks to her I was able to get home safe (she helped me figure out a route home). I was even more angry at him for the fact that he did EXACTLY what I told him I didn't want any guy to do WHICH IS WHY I DIDN'T WANT TO GO TO HIS PLACE.
Ladies NEVER let a man make you think you're being wrong or frigid for not wanting to be disrespected! When you say NO don't let him change that, you are TOO strong for that💕
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