Specail time

Okay mommy's I see all these lady's talk about having sex with the husband's, with being back to work I'm ware out by the time I get baby girl to sleep or if we started something she starts making noises ovee the​ baby monitor he's not the mood anymore.. i honestly​ can say I need the us time so bad but just can't find the right to jump him plus hes doesn't even seem to act like he miss are us time.. help how do you lady's fit sex in..