I have a really low sex drive. In the pst I've had partners and my sex drive seemed to go up a bit, but overall it's generally pretty low. I've never had an orgasm before, and I really want to have one, but I never feel like I'm in the mood to try etc. I'm not embarrsed to masterbate and have a few toys. I've felt like I've come close, but never all the way there. Any suggestions on how to help make it happen?