Ladies have you ever done something with a guy and immediately regretted your decision? No, I'm not talking just anything..

So last night I had an encounter with a fellow that I have been dealing with for only a few months now. He is divorced with 3 children. One day I was at work and a coworker suggested to all the women that if you can put your finger in his anus and it doesn't bother him, at least a little, then you know he's gay. I decided to ask him instead of surprising him. I figured all I needed to see is his reaction to the question.

When I asked him he did not get bothered or uncomfortable at all.. Like at all. He just told me that I couldn't do it at that moment & that we would do it once we got in the bedroom. So I thought he was joking.. However when we got to the bedroom, he actually wanted me to do it. So while I was giving oral I decide to "just do it" & OMG! Why did I do that??

My finger just slipped right in! Like I didn't need any lubrication, I didn't have to massage it so that it would be easy on him, or anything. All I could think in my mind was "WHY IS IT SO EASY?" He didn't flinch and actually he starting grinding on my finger. It being my first time ever experiencing this so I didn't put my finger all the way in, or deep enough for him because it seemed as if he wanted me to go deeper.

I felt so violated! But shouldn't it be the other way around? Shouldn't he be feeling this way?? Like my anus Is super tight (excuse my French) and I've had annul a few times, no more than 10 times and I still have to get lubricated, I have to be massaged so that I'm not so tense, and you have to be gentle with me.. So I'm like how many times has a finger been up there and does he gets off on using dildos... Because it was just way to open for a woman's finger to have been the only thing in it 😂😂

IDK if any of you ladies watch #BeingMaryJane but the season that just ended had a similar situation in it and I can't help but feel like I am her. I have decided to break it off. LADIES HAVE YOU EVER EXPERIENCED THIS SITUATION?