We have been trying for 13 months. I work 12 hour days 7a-7p and my boyfriend started working 3-11 a few months back. It is extremely difficult to schedule sex now a days. When I am ovulating i feel like i want to be sure that we are minimally doing it every other day. But I feel as though I am pestering him about it. Don't get me wrong we enjoy each other's company very much, but I feel like he is over pressured. Going crazy!