I only allow sex after both of us are bathed and clean. Am i too demanding or restrictive?

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I think it's very demanding. What happened to spontaneous sex or if you get caught up in the moment? "oh hang on a minute, we've not showered, sorry".

I prefer to shower the morning after or a few hours later.

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If I were the guy in this relationship , I'd be annoyed. Maybe you should have wipes if it bothers you so much. I mean I'd rather shower after sex , because you sweat and exchange fluids. Besides sex should be spontaneous too! Not always planned out after a shower.

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lol that just means taking two showers for me. Because I like to shower AFTERWARD! not immediately after.. But like maybe 15-20 mins after. I don't want to walking around with that stink all over me. lol

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Yes! Just relax and let go. Wonderful things come from sex especially when you have a small musk( I know it sounds gross) smell from the both of you. Physiologically your body would be more attracted to each other since you have natural pharamons being released. I personally love it when my husband isn't the cleanest.

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be demanding. have your demands met. you rule your body, yo.

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I usually have wash after I don't have time for energy to go take a bath come our have sex and go back in ...

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He better have showered in the morning lol if he stinks, off to shower before anything. Perhaps it will change once married, but this works for me for now.

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I think sex is something that u nvr plan!!

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Im kind of the same way.  Id love to be more spontaneous and not self concious but I like to be sqeaky clean.

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In my honest opinion, it feels better to make love when both of us are clean. Of cos i'll say yes to spontaneous sex, but if both of us are perspiring and tired after a long day out, sex after showering feels best!

I only allow sex after both of us are bathed and clean. Am i too demanding or restrictive?

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