I get it. It is an actual term about the body breaking its hymen. But. I honestly hate it. Why do men think it's horrible to be a virgin. What makes you so important that you get to take away something from me? If you know what mean? "This is the first time I have had sex." Cool story bro. Idc though. Its not like having it or losing it at any age to any guy is going to make me think less of you?!