RANT: I don't want to explain why right now but I'm going to be a single mom and for right now my parents are letting me stay with them thankfully. I'm 23 and I'm a first time mom. Every time I ever say how I want my baby's birth to go, my mom freaks out and TELLS me how is GOING to go. I don't really have many friends to talk to about this, I sent this to one of my friends hoping she could talk me through it but she's at work... and I just want to talk to someone 😭. Anyways, the message j sent her said, """""""I messaged her earlier and I thought I had a good idea and then I thought to myself, she might freak out so I texted her back and said never mind, about an hour ago. I went in to the living room and sat down and she asked me about what my idea was and I told her never mind, I didn't want to talk about it right now . And she asked me over and over what it was, so I finally told her. I said "instead of everyone coming to the hospital, we can have a get together 2 weeks after so everyone can see her" she said "do you really want everyone passing her around at a get together" I said "yes, I'd rather it be two weeks later than two days after" she said "no no, we are NOT going to do that!! You already said my dad can come to the hospital and MY DAD CAN COME and see her when she's born." Getting alllll worked up. I said "yeah, he can, but for everyone else I want to see her later" she said "well you know what, you said you would let everyone see her the day after and you know what ?? THATS CALLED FAMILY." And I'm just like this is why I didn't want to talk about it right now, because you would over react. And she tells me what a bitch I'm being and how I've been a bitch all day". """""""" My mom is very controlling and if I try to explain my reasoning for anything she freaks out. It's her way or no way. I just want this to be about my baby and I. It's not about my mom, it's not about my friends, it's not about my family . It's about me giving birth to this precious little girl and I just want it to go my way. 😭