So I don't know how else to put it besides my Dad can be an ass. I know he means well and wants to see his grandchild but he lives 12 hours away I maybe see Him once a year. He is determined to be here when she is born. He is embarrassing, loud and obnoxious. He puts everything down. He constantly talks about my dogs and how I should just get rid of them. Made fun of the name we chose. And says he is going to be here when she is born and will be staying with me. He will make my husband feel uncomfortable in his own home. I will be learning to breastfeed (FTM) and told him no one is allowed in my room for the first two hours he thought that was ridiculous and says they don't know that he lives so far away. I made it clear I would really like to have the first two weeks for bonding. I just don't know what else to say. I feel like he is going to ruin this special moment for us :((