why does my ex keep talking to me (help please)
My ex and I were in a long distance relationship and we worked very hard to make it work. We visited each other and loved each other very much. Around august we broke up and got back together the problems persisted though and he broke up with me for the second and last time-the whole relationship lasted around a year and a half. After our break up although unhappy we spoke a lot until he told me that he was intrested in a new girl and I had enough since it broke me. Reguardless him and the girl didn't work out and through it all we still continued to talk.
After our break up we remained intimate for months after the actual break. They trailed into emotional connections and later arguing since I wanted to get back together but he did not. It became a cycle of fucking, getting too close emotionally, arguing and swearing we would let go and never talk again and doing it all over again after a series of weeks.
Around December we stopped talking for quite a long time and I had blocked him. He reached me through other means and we began the cycle all over again.
Recently the cycle has ceased somewhat or at least I thought. We stopped talking for a month and I was very stressed and tried to contact him a lot but took comfort in the fact he didn't answer and it was over. We used each other as emotional support for a long time after the break up...I called and we spoke and argued like we always did-I assumed it was the last time and took solace in that the past couple of weeks.
Yesterday he texted me out of the blue and we talked for a while. Today I couldn't help but call him I wanted to know why he texted. After calling we video chatted and he smiled at me in the special way that you do with someone you like-I called him out on it and he admitted that he was happy to see someone he hadn't seen in awhile. Of course it all fell through when he showed me a hickey he got from another girl and then told me to relax and it wasn't serious with this girl. I tried saying goodbye and he asked me to stay.
The whole thing ruined my day like the cycle always does and I sent a text telling him I didn't think we should speak anymore. I also blocked him.
I don't understand why neither of us have really let go. You only talk to your ex when you want to get back together. And neither of us can or want that to happen...
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