Does anyone else feel that ttc is becoming a 2nd job

We have been ttc since May of 2014 and nothing I'm 36 this would be our first.  But I'm starting to feel like ttc is a 2nd job because every month i sit and figure out when my ovulation days going to be and I'm start peeing on the ovulation test and month after month nothing now my Dr just told me to start having sex every other day from the time I end my period it's taking all the Romance away and feel like work not fun.  I want a baby but this is starting to get to me.