The only way I could be able to have one is using my oral-b electrical toothbrush(with the round brush) with a condom on it. I was so surprised. Don't do it often though, because it feels a bit embarassing to me. Don't know why, my husband loves to watch me doing it.

Welcome to the club. I'm right there with you. :(

Never had one through intercourse either. I think it's really common.

It's extremely common. Some women have never had one at all. For me personally I have never had one from penetration but I have from clitoral stimulation. Clitoral stimulation is key. Ask ur partner to stimulate u there whilst having sex ( if he can multitask lol ). For me, when that happens, my legs go like jelly and I get pins and needles type feeling all over my body and I go a bit crazy lol

I noticed I am the same way the only way I can have a orgasum is from being on top idk why but it works for me 

Use lots of lube with your toys too

I always orgasm when my SO is having sex with me and rubs my clit at the same time!

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