TTC and sexy time

Ok ladies.

My husband and I have been TTC for 11 months now and tonight we did the BD. During said BD, he told me he really hoped that we have a baby (I told him my nipples were sore and he said he hopes it's his fault 😂😭). Like holy shit, I never in my LIFE thought that hearing someone say they want to put a baby in you would be such a turn on. Maybe TMI, but damn. ❤️😍😍 anyone else feel like this? Or have you had a similar experience?

Of course, this also broke my heart because I think he has the "why hasn't it happened yet" mentality and that kills me because he feels like it's his fault because "he just can't have kids." This has not been confirmed by a doctor, I've told him he needs to not think that way and we will get tested if we don't conceive in 6 months or so.

Does anyone else's hubby have the same mentality that it's their fault when it's not?

Man, who knew trying to make tiny human spawns was so damn stressful!

I'm currently only 7DPO but I'm hoping for a BFP after this long TWW. I'm trying to stay relaxed about the whole situation but it's tough!