Why is adoption not an option?

Let me tell you a story... 

A young girl who is 15 years old gets pregnant. The pill she was taking at the time would cause major defects to the baby and she is so young that she gets an abortion. And that haunts her every single day of her life. To know she messed up like that. To know she ended a life. Even if the baby was born with problems we know there are women out there who would gladly love that child with every bone in their body. Abortion needs to end. Not only will it hurt a human being that did absolutely nothing to deserve being killed because of some woman's stupid mistake of getting pregnant too young or getting pregnant when she wasn't ready but it will also haunt that woman every single day of her entire life. And if it doesn't then please let the women who do care know what switch you had to turn off cause she can't seem to find it. 

Now keep going to the same girl turns 16 and guess what? Gets pregnant again! Only this time she knows she can't take that pain again. She isn't going to make her parents help her raise her child because it's not their child to raise! Instead she realizes that she made a mistake but there are other options! And she meets two absolutely wonderful people who are an amazing couple and would be amazing parents and they decide to raise that sweet baby. And even want that baby to know the person who gave that baby life so the young girl sees her child every week, then 6 months later every 2 weeks, then a year later she sees that child once a month and gets updates in between. And yes it hurts badly to know you won't be called mom or you can't see your baby every day, but does that child deserve to suffer for your absolutely idiotic mistake of getting pregnant when you just weren't ready? NO! 

What I'm trying to get at here is that I'm sick of people not thinking about adoption or open adoption. If you don't want your child to see you struggle then pick one of the billions of people trying to have children because they are the ones who deserve to be called mom and dad. Not you. And yes it will hurt. But it's going to hurt a lot more to know because of you that there is another sweet innocent child up in heaven instead of with two loving parents on earth living a full life. Hate me all you will I was not whoring around, I was with the same guy and I was young and foolish. Now I'm older and I still see my child and now I have one of my own but I will continue to live with the pain of my choices but at least my child will go on to living a full and wonderful life. When you see a young girl say that adoption is not an option please tell her she's wrong. It's one of the most selfless things you can do. Especially for a wonderful blessing. 

Update: yes this was more about how people should adopt more. My first baby would have been born with really difficult birth defects though and that was half of the reason for an abortion. Your body or not though now you are handling another human beings body so shouldn't you not be so selfish about your own self and except the fact you messed up and maybe give that child to a couple who could love that baby since you obviously can't? I didn't the first time and I wish I never would have gotten that abortion. I realize I sound like a hipocite but now I can say I've leaned my lesson. And if you are a rape victim does that mean you don't love the little human being inside you? Yes you don't know what half of the child will be like but you do know your half. And if it pains you so much can't you give that child up to a family who will love them baby no matter who it is or how he or she comes out? Do I make absolutely no sense by saying that? Sorry for my ranting but I just wish more women would stop taking such an "easy" route and instead look to the people who want nothing more then to just have a child of their own.