Getting more discouraged with each month of not being pregnant

Jessica • 32, Married. Sebastián James 11.30.19. Custom at home baker/SAHM
I know it says wait a year before getting tests done but it's been 5 months of trying and using multiple apps to track and taking my bbt, drinking herbal fertility tea, taking like 7 daily vitamins for a fertility blend, both my husband and I. Each period I get I become more depressed. And it seems like I'm surrounded by other newlyweds who are all pregnant, my only other married friend got pregnant her first try, and their chunky baby is adorable. And makes me feel ever worse. And my other bestie actually conceived while on birth control. So I also feel like I have no one to talk to. I don't know if I can wait til a year of trying... I'm so desperate to start our family. Our one year wedding anniversary was today. And I had so hoped to be pregnant by now...