Transgender...

Shelby
So let me start off by saying IM NOT AGAINST TRANSGENDER!
 I think everyone has the right to be who they feel they are...
 No what this is about
 My friend is a women who wants to be a man.... I never had a problem with her tell now. She has two kids a little boy& a little girl...
 She is always pushing that she's the man of the house & he is a man....
Now if you look back on her photos and who she was about a year and a half ago: she wore tons of make up low cute shirts, long hair.. But now that she is dating a man who wants to be a women..... She forces her childeren(not her new be/hfs kids) to call him /her modda(mom fused with dad. ) 
 I think it's wrong.. Sooo wrong..... I think think she is changing for someone who may not even love her?! 
What the hell do I say to her?! I feel like our friendship is falling apart because she thinks I "dislike" her choice to be a man... When it has nothing to do with that... I just think that if she really wanted to be a man she wouldn't have gotten pregnant... That's the most womanly thing a girl can do... Gah!!!