What do you guys respond with when you get asked "when are guys having kids?" "When will you give him/her a brother/sister?!" "Do you want to have (more) kids?" "You need a baby of your own!"

Ive been ttc with my man for over a year. Now, he has a son from a previous relationship, but this would be my first. Only a handful of people know weve been actively ttc. Not even our families, just a couple really close friends. Our families do know i have pcos and it wouldnt be easy for us to conceive tho.

I just hate when people ask me when im gunna give my step son a sibling, or tell me i need my own kid since im so good with everyone elses. Like, i barely know you, and i understand the curiosity. But its heart wrenching to have to answer these questions with answers other than "whenever my stupid body allows me to actually carry a child!" <- which is what runs thru my mind every time. 😞