A few weeks ago this guy I was dating for a few months completely ghosted me. I thought we were really good together too, we understood each other. Well, I guess not as well as I thought. We were in an argument over text and he never answered. The guy before him did the same thing. And the one before that, although the two before we weren't as close and never argued with them so it didn't hurt as bad. The fact that the last three guys I've dated ghosted me really takes a toll on my self esteem. Like I really look back at myself like what the fuck is so wrong with me. It sucks. Especially since we really talked about committing (he always brought it up, I never did) and in the middle of this argument he just never answered. We always got along so well this was our first argument and he was so childish I swear. I thought he just needed time to collect his thoughts but it's been a few weeks now. We're long distance so there's not much I can do. We were arguing because he always would call these girls "hoes" but out of nowhere they're suddenly his "friends." He said "I don't cut people out of my life, so girls I used to mess around with or date are still close to me" hahahahahaha whatever fuck you im sure you're all real close. All I can say is anyone who values you wouldn't put themselves in a position to lose you! I'll admit I spent that first week or two pathetically crying (never cried over a guy before so that sucked) but now I will work on a better me. I just really hope someone in the future respects me enough to actually end it rather than just disappearing. If you want to end things with someone, tell them. It's not a good feeling when they just abandon you like that, there's no closure.