has anyone been with a guy who has a child and is expecting another?

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Help, I don't know how to handle this. Well I do, but I want some perspective. Has anyone ever been in love with someone like this? I've known him for a couple years, and he didn't commit the first time around because of his daughter and the difficulties with her mom. We were apart for about 8 months and I find out she's pregnant again. She's due next month. He says he isn't with her and that it just happened because she's all that's there..and supposedly she knows they aren't together. He wants to know what he has to do to be with me. In my head he's delusional, another part of me is wondering if this could work after the baby is born and is older?

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Yeah no he's dillusional and you would be just as crazy to get involved,run fast! If he had sex with her because "that's all that's their" says alot about his character and respect for Women. If yall do get back together I almost guarantee he's going to leave you and go back to her because "she had my baby".....Don't fall for his BS

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Run!!

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No way. That's his family. You're going to end up hurt. Or in a very frustrating situation.

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You are crazy to even entertain the idea. He is a liar, and look where listening to his BS got the other girl.... she's got two kids and is getting cheated on while she's pregnant. Do you want that to be you? He's probably not getting much at home and is now hitting you up. There is no way she just wanted another kid and "would have one with anobody" does that honestly make sense to you? He's a douche, have some standards and get someone who's unattached in every way and doesn't suck.

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Oh my god... run for the hilllllssss gf.

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He keeps going back to her no way because he will just always go back to her

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Don't take him back. Found your own family with someone who is really into you. Good luck!

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When I met my husband he had 2 kids and was going through a divorce from their mom. He moved to TN and we kept in contact. Well his wife threw out the divorce and wanted to fix their marriage and he wanted his kids back so he moved her up there. We cut all ties. Never spoke to him for over a year until I ran into him back in our town and he said she filed for divorce again and there was no going back. We eventually got back together after their divorce but this time he had 3 kids! Now we've been married almost 4 yrs with our rainbow baby on the way. Our situation seems to be truly one of a kind but it can happen. But the fact that he says she's all that's there is weird to me. There doesn't seem to be a direct cut of ties between him and her if she supposedly knows they're not together.

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Leave him where u found him the first time. He isnt going nowhere w his children's mother. He may be unhappy w a desire to leave bt the likelihood of that happening is slim to none. 'All that there is' but you've been waiting for him. Move on and save yourself the heartache xoxo

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I am so sorry but he is lying to you. Every much so. If you guys haven't contacted each other for 8 months? WHY NOW? He is full of shit. I am not going to say you are naive, it's too mean. You are blinded by him. Very much so. You know the true signs since you are asking us to help you out with this. Follow your instincts. PLEASE. If you had a daughter WHAT will YOU tell her? Or your best friend? You'll tell them to run!! Plus...he has a family, he doesn't want to leave. He would had left before the first baby was born.

has anyone been with a guy who has a child and is expecting another?

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