Few things

First I was scheduled to take progesterone shots because my last child was a preemie at 29 weeks. I took 2 shots and decided they weren't for me. I have had no issues but I did dialate 1 cm about a month ago so I had to take steroid shots. I go in for my check today. She can't see how dialated I am because it's too far up there and I have blood on my urine, I was also told a few weeks ago that I had high protein in my urine. I keep getting told not to worry and it's normal but when I google things nothing "normal" pops up. WTH?!