Do you think it's ok to take a break from your relationship? I'm a very free spirit and I hate the feeling of being controlled and tied down. My boyfriend is in the military and has a hard time trusting me since I'll be going off to college soon. I kno he cares a lot and truly loves me but I'm scared that he's going to become soo controlling that he won't let me go out. When I fee like this I think that taking a break might be the best idea for us for a bit but he said that if we ever take a break that he'll never love me again. Idk what to do.