VENT about outfit choice vs boyfriend 🤦‍♂️

I've seen a lot of these on here & I would like to ask WHY? Why is it not okay for your SO to not want you to wear something revealing? Why is it not ok for your man to want to protect you!? I understand if he's just being controlling. that's never ok, but when it's something where you are showing a lot of skin...? 
It's become a whole new thing where you don't need to respect each other's opinions anymore because "your SO doesn't control you" 
PERSONALLY, I was raised to cover your private areas because although perverts can look at you a nasty way regardless of what you're wearing; you give them more access for them to see what they want to see. 
I don't get my generation anymore.. 
IM NOT HERE TO ARGUE
so if you are rude to me, or trying to argue, you will be blocked
IF IT WORKS FOR YOU to wear whatever you want when you want how you want, good for you. This clearly doesn't apply to you.