I had a miserable time finding a baby wrap that felt secure on my small frame with my bigger baby. It always felt like my daughter was going to fall out and I got so worried about it, I ditched the wrap quickly and went with an ergo. But with my second baby due in August, I want to try again and thought I'd ask for recommendations on wraps that are easy to do/tie/secure, feel secure, and can hold a bigger baby well. Thanks so much!