So my husband and I have children but not children together. After some long and careful thought we decided we wanted to have children together and have his vasectomy reversed (He had it done while married to his ex-wife). I am so scared and nervous that I will get my hopes up and we won't be able to conceive. We are not old but I know we don't have a huge window to try. Have any of you ladies been through this? Or are going through this now? I feel like a crazy person and trying to pretend that I'm not getting my hopes up and that I'm not freaking out is exhausting!!