Drinking wine?

Davone • I`m a happily married lesbian who is trying to start a family with her wife. TTC baby #2 the 1st is 21 yrs old.
Im trying to conceive and I like to have a glass of wine here and there is it bad? 
​Also my friend drank red wine while she was pregnant ..... She said her doctor said it was ok. I just find that to be so weird. She never did it in public but she did do it at home. 
​I'm not going to drink while I'm pregnant but I enjoy a glass here and there now.