irritated

so my boyfriend had a fairly bad evening. he runs a gym and when we were leaving he realized he locked his keys inside, and got REALLY angry at himself just kept pacing around talking about how big of an idiot he was while looking for a place he could get in. we couldn't go anywhere so I had to call my stepmom to come pick us up so we could go get the spare key, but anyway after we got his keys out of the gym he seemed okayish. like he was cooled down, but still kind of upset that it happened. Not really mad anymore, he just seemed tired and a little sad, I think because just when minor things happen like this he really really beats himself up about it. But anyway, we both drove home and before leaving I asked him to text me when he got home, he didn't see the text. Then when I got home I texted him and asked if he got home alright. Then when he didn't answer I just called him on facetime and he just visibly was irritated and annoyed that I called, I said I just wanted to see that he got home OK and he had this irritated look on his face and I could tell he was about to say "why didn't you just text me" or something like that so I told him that I did and he didn't answer. But anyway, he's just seemed irritated by me all evening, I'm trying not to take it personally because I know he just has a bad day, and I feel like its selfish to make things about me, but I don't know it's just hard. When I feel like I'm bothering him I don't know what to do, I feel like I should leave him alone but feeling like I made him upset just makes me want to talk to him. He didn't say leave me alone or anything, and I don't think he ever has or ever would, but it kinda just feels like that's what he wants and I don't know, my feelings are a little bruised.