Sex drive problems- im off birth control, now what???

I'm 25. Four years ago when I met my boyfriend, we were like bunnies- we could go at it all day and night. A month later I went on the pill. Slowly I felt myself getting depressed, tired, and crazy to the point of going on anxiety meds. Then I realized- we aren't having sex. After about a year and a half, I decided to try the non-hormone IUD. Twice. My body rejected it, and it just wasn't for me. Sigh. So I switched to the nuvaring. Everything was perfect, except my sex drive was non-existent. This has caused a rift in my relationship, and so about a month ago I gave up birth control. We've had sex once, but I still don't find myself wanting it. Has anyone had a similar experience, or can anyone suggest a timeline for things to go back to normal?