I didn't mean it.

So I posted a selfie yesterday with a bunch of hashtags. One of the hashtags where #nokids and my close friend that lives about an hour away so we rarely see each other. She sees it. And comments on it. She just had her first son at the age of 31. And isn't with the babies dad anymore. I know it bothered her I put that hashtag. But she was no where near my mind when I posted it. I meant it as a joke just to get a few likes. Now she isn't replying back like she used to. What can I say so fix it. Thanks in advance.