Am I wrong for feeling this way?

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My boyfriend wished his baby momma a happy Mother's Day. They're not close or anything like that she keeps the baby away and we're going through court for that. But I just can't help but feel sad or betrayed because he did this? And not to mentioned he deleted it from their messages.... I'm 4 month pregnant so maybe it has something to do with my hormones

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Yeah, totally. If he didn't say "happy Mother's Day" to the woman who gave birth to his child he would be a total piece of shit. That should actually make you feel good that if you two split in the near future at least he'd be decent enough to wish you a happy Mother's Day too.

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There's nothing wrong with him wishing her a happy Mother's Day... she is the mother of his child.

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If he was civil to the mother of his child, despite a custody dispute, I'd say he's doing the right thing. Unless he's saying inappropriate things, I'd cut him some slack.

I wouldn't ever be with a man who couldn't Co parent in a civil, adult manner. Sounds like you have a decent guy there.

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I send a card with a letter inside to my stepson's mother every Mother's Day, even though she's tried continuously to cut my husband out of his son's life since the day she found out we were first dating (every wild allegation you can imagine, in court motion after court motion for three years now - you name it, we've been on the receiving end). I do it not because I like or honestly even have any respect for her after everything she's put us and her poor son through in the process of her trying to "get revenge," but because whether or not I like it, she's the mother of one of my favorite little people, because being civil is the right, adult thing to do, and because no matter how awfully she continues to behave toward us, I'll never give up trying to move forward, find peace, and coparent for his sake. I'd say give your SO the benefit of the doubt that he's just trying to do the right thing.

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Wow smh.

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Your not wrong at all 💯💯I would feel the same way .

Am I wrong for feeling this way?

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