So I'm dating this 30 year old man with 2 kids and I'm 23. He's always busy he works 7 days a week I may see him once a week. We have been seeing each other for almost 2 months. My friends and family tell me that he may have another woman and that I'm just someone on the side because I haven't met his family but I've met his best friends. His daughter sent me a video message congratulating me but people told me he could have told her I could be anyone. Occassionally we go out on some dates and we sleep with each other. He always wants to pay for things for me like when my work shoes broke he got me new ones or when I needed a dress for graduation he offered to buy it because he said he wants to help out because we are a team. He told me he wants to take things slow and to get to know me better and grow together.  But I don't want to get hurt and I don't want to be played. Do you think he has someone else or he's being cautious?