Am I a danger??

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(Posting anon because I'm ashamed of this)

If you had awful anger issues and believed yourself to be dangerous to your animals and maybe your husband, would you leave? You've never hit your spouse. Only play fighting hits, but you see black when you are made and literally 100% CAN NOT control yourself when pushed to a certain degree of anger. I love my husband and animals with every fiber of my being and I have been trying so hard to learn how to deal with it. But something is wrong with me. Ever since we moved out if our apartment and switched houses twice and got my dog and inherited his family dog when his dad died and had 11 deaths in my family all in 1 year I can't control myself anymore. I get so mad at the blink of an eye and for stupid shit. I also had to quit college, had a sister and grandma die, one of my cats died, we moved 3 times. I've been under so much pressure, and now we are TTC. But I think I've decided to stop TTC and I've been thinking about maybe going kind of disappearing. Not tell anyone and just go away. I'm scared I'm a danger to everyone. Do you think I'll be making the right decision. Please comment, I could really use some advice and thoughts...

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Yeah I wouldn't be TTC.

Honey go see a professional. Talk to your doctor. Do something. This isn't normal and you need to go get the help you need so you can have your life without this fear. Talk to your husband about how you feel. He's your husband. He loves you. He'll support you through this. Best of luck ❤️

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If you can, you need to get help from a professional. And I think it would be in your best interest to absolutely stop TTC until you have your anger issues under control.

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You can get help. There is therapy and medication. You have been through so much. You are still standing and breathing and now you just need help with the next step to live a happy healthy life. Get help, it will be okay. 💜

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Im sorry to hear about whats happened to you. I agree with the other ladies. It's sounds like you've had so many loses and changes in such a short amount of time and not enough time to get help and deal with all these feelings. Sometimes your mind can only handle so much and that's ok. Sometimes you need help to work through life and what's happened and it sounds like that's what's going on. I hope you can find the strength to reach out to someone for support and someone who can help you feel like you again!

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You need to seek professional help and talk to your husband. Disappearing does nothing but make it worse.

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This is not the time to be TTC.
Talk to a professional and sort out your issues before bringing an innocent baby into this madness

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I think you need to seek some help as it sounds like your suffering with depression maybe go see your doctor and get some counselling don't just disappear as your problem will not get better

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Have you tried therapy??? I don't think you should just up and leave. I think if you get a good therapist and a doctor you can learn how to control yourself again. It sounds like all the stress of everything is just too much on you. I'm sorry.❤❤

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I wouldn't leave. I don't see the benefit of leaving. It won't fix your anger problem. I would go to your doctor, get medication and seek advice and help on how to deal with this, maybe CBT.

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It's not the right time to TTC. You have obviously been through a lot! You acknowledge there's issues so that's a great start. Don't disappear, you have a husband and a whole future together. Talk to him about your feelings and then look at getting therapy to learn anger management techniques and deal with the underlying causes. There's definitely hope and a brighter future ahead 💗

Am I a danger??

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