How long should I be paitent?

Becca
We miscarried our baby in October, I want to try again more than anything but my S/O keeps telling me to be patient. At first he said we could try again, then he changed his mind and said he didnt. Now I have addressed the subject again (last month) he says to be paitent. How long should I give him. I am already 34, I cant turn of the pain of wanting a baby. It breaks my heart that this could end our relationship.