Husband HELP!

Ever since the wedding I feel very little emotional connection. Idk why.... it bothers me a lot and I have no idea how to fix it. It's caused our sex life to deteriorate. He has given me maybe 5-10 orgasms in a year and 4 months. I'm pretty sure the last one was January. I don't even really feel loved. It's almost like we're roommates. Any advise? 
We do go to counseling but I haven't had the courage to bring it up. He knows I don't feel loved.